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Women can be emotionally unavailable too! Not being sexist but women are usually more sensitive than men and we can't deny that. But sometimes we come across women who aren't emotionally invested in the relationship at all and it only confuses us to a level that we don't have answers to any of our questions. And no you aren't being paranoid, there is something fishy about her that it forces you to go online and read this article.
But don't worry! We have the answers to your questions! If you're being rejected by her again and again, that's alarming and she definitely has some emotional baggage from the past that she's been carrying with her. She keeps on calling you a good guy and shows red flags whenever you try to get close to her. However, don't feel bad because exceptions are always there and you can be an epitome of that section.
So, just to be doubly sure, here are some s to identify where your girlfriend or date is emotionally unavailable or not.
Are you still blaming yourself for that 'fancy-candlelight-dinner-with-a-ring-inside-a-champagne-glass' proposal gone wrong? Even if she shows interest in you later, calling you a nice guytake it as a red flag because chances are it might not last long. You might have been in a relationship for months now, but if she still doesn't acknowledge you in front of her friends or family, boy you are heading nowhere.
Further, she wouldn't be too keen to know about you either. Although, chances of this situation are very bleak, it's not that it doesn't happen. There is no denying the fact that we men are criticized for having a casual approach towards things.
But, when it comes to relationship, ladies, we are damn serious. But with her, things will be the opposite, her actions will be very casual and unpredictable. There will be days when she will have sex with you and then the next day, disappear suddenly and not talk to you for a couple of days in a stretch. Casual sex becomes the only thing left to be mooched off the relationship. Guys, it's no rocket science. If a relationship lasted for a really long time, then getting out of that zone after a breakup will take some time too.
And we all know that when someone gets into a relationship immediately after a breakup, it's possibly a rebound. Hint: She would spend more time cribbing about her ex than having areal conversation with you. Are you always the one who walks that extra mile to make things work? Congratulations, you've got your answer. Terms like 'adjustment' or 'time' would probably not make it to her dictionary while she is dating you.
She knows how to pamper you and insult you at the same time. Such women are for real. But, the moment work is done, she will shun you and pretend that she can't do anything for you.
Further, because of their growing jealousy they will often try to separate you from your friends. For them 'Commitment' will be the word they dread the most. Even if you jokingly mention that you want to take things to another level, it will scare the hell out of them. Soon after, they will start finding reasons, making excuses or setting agendas for you to follow. In short, she will try to control you. Have you ever had anxiety or insecurity of not being good enough for your girl?
Do you often doubt yourself and trust your girl's words blindly, when she says that you should thank your stars for having met her or consider yourself lucky. Has she ever boastfully counted the of guys she has dated before you? You're doomed.
In fact, it will be your insecurities and the noted flaws that will be used against you at the time of breaking up. Being emotionally unavailable is not a fancy concept. You might feel that the points noted above are superficial and exaggerated, but the baggage of a past relationship is way too real. At times, situations like broken or bitter family relations, troubled childhood or abusive past relationship, compel a person to block herself emotionally.
And because of this bottled up anger, she would often try to hurt you expecting you to go through all that in the name of love. Accepting your mistake to pacify the situation once or twice is fine, but if you are the one who always apologises, even when it's not your fault; you know where this conversation is heading. She would always make you feel guilty and find thousands of flaws in you and you will always be the one asking for forgiveness. This is the deadliest of all the ones mentioned here. When you see that your relationship is heading nowhere, and a breakup seems to be the best option, but even that is not possible.
The moment you will wish to end things with her, she will charm you into staying for some more time. She will make you believe that there is still some hope left in your relationship.
And you will, as expected, fall for the trick. So folks, if your girlfriend does not fall under this category, go and give her a big hug right now. Shop Read. up with us to unlock all features!
Relationship Problems. By MensXP Team. She Is Least Interested In Knowing About You You might have been in a relationship for months now, but if she still doesn't acknowledge you in front of her friends or family, boy you are heading nowhere.
She Is Very 'Casual' About Relationships There is no denying the fact that we men are criticized for having a casual approach towards things. Bro, You're A Rebound Guys, it's no rocket science. They Love To Take You Out On Guilt Trip Accepting your mistake to pacify the situation once or twice is fine, but if you are the one who always apologises, even when it's not your fault; you know where this conversation is heading. Share this story. What's on your mind? Start a conversation, not a fire. Post with kindness.
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How to identify an emotionally unavailable woman